Saturday, February 12, 2011

Sex, Love, & Cupid



Another year of chocolates, roses, candied hearts, hugs, and kisses, but has Cupid shot his arrow into your bottom yet? Many of us will be receiving yummy treats, big surprises, heartfelt words, and remarkable dinners, but how many of us will be receiving the type of love making we truly desire? Special occasions like Valentines Day make topics like sex intriguing. On this day we feel like something amazing should occur in the bedroom with our mate; some spectacular out of the ordinary experience that makes our mate fall deeper in love with us. After all, if cupid delivers all these goodies, then sure enough, he should also deliver great sex therapy.

According to OpposingViews, a well known online news source in health and other issues, 63% of men under age 45, and 62 percent of women of the same age group, say that sexual activity is an essential part of a solid romantic relationship. In fact, 24% of those individuals were not 100% satisfied with their sex lives. Women & men too often let things subside in the bedroom that they are unhappy with for fear of hurting their mates feelings. If that is you, how about not making this year a repeat of the mediocre sex you've been experiencing. A small thing called communication in sex makes a world of difference! In fact, your mate would prefer to know what makes you climax to heights of Mount Everest, then the comparative shallow San Juan Hills. Here are a few short communicative tips to enhance your love making on Cupids Day:

1.) Give him or her a sex coupon book along with a card expressing all the things you love sexually, be very specific. Suggest using the coupons to try some of the things you've expressed to him or her.

2.) Take a long bath together, a perfect setting for relaxation. Slowly bring up the topic of sex, highlighting first the things you like. Ease into the things you want, once again be very specific!

3.) Play a sex game like Truth or dare, or Sex Yahtzee, which requires one die, two open minds, a pen, and paper. Example 1=oral sex, 2= kiss etc. remember this is your chance to try different things with your partner, and express how you want to be aroused, so don't be shy.

Happy Valentines Day & I hope Cupid visits your bedroom sooner than later!

By: Venessa Gopaul