Riding That Horsey!

I'm not referring to the horsey at fair, and if you didn't figure that out, then YOUR PROBABLY NOT OLD ENOUGH TO READ THIS!

How are your riding skills ladies? Gentleman, how are the ladies riding skills? Please do share below. I've heard some amazing stories about women taking control and getting it all the way done. I've also heard some train wreck stories from men and women about how awful it was for them. Often times men do a lot of work in the bedroom as they should be able to when expected. However, as O'neika McCabe says it best "FAIR EXCHANGE has never ever been Robbery!" Sometimes your man may be the one who just wants to relax and get the goodies without working up a sweat.

Using about 20 friends and 30 random strangers in the Los Angeles area ages 21-35 years old (both male & female) who agreed to let me ask them some very personal questions, I received some good feedback about riding. The fact is some of us women ride it like we getting paid for it, some of y'all might be (lol); while others simply are inexperienced or uncomfortable. However, most women agreed that riding really depends on the chemistry, rhythm, and vibe of their mate. Women stated that some men were easier to ride, while they couldn't even mount a different guy. Many of the women added that the size of the male penis is also a key importance in riding meshed with the aforementioned qualities. No one person, however, had the answer to why riding one guy may be a blast and another guy a disaster. The males in my test group concurred with most of the women. They experienced great and mediocre riding experiences from women. They too, felt like it depends on the engagement and level of comfort you have with your partner plus the skills of a woman!

Personally, it depends on my mood, enthusiasm, and level of sexual freedom with my partner. I've had some relationships where I've rode their brains out and others where I felt like I needed a coach & 15 years of jockey practice to ride anything besides a roller-coster ever again. Yet, in those instances it was always a lack of comfort in the relationship. I felt like we weren't on one accord or he was on a different rhythm then me every time we attempted it. I was over thinking wondering was he looking at the 2 lbs I've gained, was I as good as his ex, did it feel good to him etc… I mean all sorts of stuff that prohibited me from doing a SeaBiscuit performance. Thus, I can empathize with the women who have shared those experiences with me. I've been there a couple of times. So how do you get over this hump to stay on the hump? Lets talk about it?

My suggestion is addressing whatever 'IT' may be that doesn't make you sexually comfortable with your mate. If its weight, lack of enthusiasm, lack of sexual freedom, too many boundaries, or bored in bed WHATEVER it may be, address it before its too late. Things that are not address about sex ONLY gets worse, he don't know what you want, and you don't know what he wants, and unless you are a mind reader you'll always just be wondering! So talk about it and if your already a PRO and this article did nothing for you, leave 'us' the people who want to become pro's some advice. Hopefully this time next year OR tonight if your a fast learner, you'll be riding your man to the moon & back!